Red flags in dating women
Have you noticed any red flags I didn’t mention here?
And if you haven’t actually been meeting up or going on dates with him? If you feel like he is being shady and he isn’t giving you any reason to think otherwise, don’t fool yourself into believing he is worth sticking around for.
You think to yourself, Sometimes some of the most “obvious” red flags are completely ignored and the consequence is a broken heart.
The thing is, a lot of women are conditioned from a young age to accept these red flags as normal. I don’t care if he lies about his age, or if he conveniently forgets to tell you important things (like a business meeting…).
This feeling of relief in contrast to the low of the anxiety and constant tension can be mistaken for happiness and is what makes you good by comparison. If you aren’t putting forth a good vibe and honest effort into a relationship (or even dating) then you aren’t going to get good vibes and honest results in return.
Try clearing your mind of suspicion first, bring yourself to a “happy place”, and then try again.