Not getting response online dating

I was initially surprised at the number of emails many girls were receiving.

Much of it was worthless spam (the same guy sending the same email to every girl within 30 miles of him) but it still provided a lot of communication for the lady to go through.

At some point online dating may have sounded interesting and they created a profile but never really did anything more than upload their picture and look around.

Now they check their account occasionally to make themselves feel good based on all the emails they are getting but they never respond to anyone.

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Before you label yourself as the “Worst Profile Creator Ever” or anything else equally untrue, review the reasons why you may not get responses.

Curiosity Sometimes people sign up just to view other profiles.

When I was dating, some of my friends signed up just to view my profile (because I asked them to).

Part of this may be showing inactive profiles to encourage other people to sign up which, while not “right”, may be well within their “rights” (that is, you create the profile but they technically own it).

Knowing what I know now, I wish I would have removed my pictures and any text so that even if the service did try this at least there would be nothing to see. Occasionally you may even get a response from someone you emailed months ago apologizing that they hadn’t been online for a while or had been very busy (this happened to me twice).

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