Dating tall dark handsome men
Researchers initially thought this meant that dominant men would be the most attractive.After all, dominant men would be more likely to acquire resources.It also doesn’t mean that you have to be amazingly hot (although honestly, that always helps).But since those may represent good health and security, don’t discount them when dating. Let a woman know what you want and how to get it, without being pushy or rude.When men reflect dominance by being assertive, confident social, they are liked more and rise in status. What women ultimately want depends on the length of the relationship: is it a short-term fling or a long-term love affair?
Men who are antisocial get marginalized and lose status in groups.
If a woman is looking for a provider, she doesn’t want someone who is eventually going to be rejected by everyone.
Plus, a dominant and disagreeable man is unpleasant to be around (and sometimes dangerous).
At one point the question “Do nice guys finish last? After some discussion, a friend of mine named Ashley (conveniently dating a fraternity brother) said, “Yes, but only in the short run.” Being a nice guy, I didn’t believe her, since the hot girls always went for the well-connected, senior guys in my frat house, while at the time I was earning the record for strike-outs.
And it seemed I at least had celebrity couples on my side.