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She always said that no matter what she was always going to love me more than i loved her (which i could not believe) but the end came and that wasn't the case. From my experience...i would never ever date another lesbian mother again.
In all honesty, this one hurt more than the first one because i felt left in the dust. Like, it wasn't because our futures didn't coincide with one another. I understand that mothers have to think about the their children first.
The counterpart of transgender is cisgender, which describes persons whose gender identity or expression matches their assigned sex.
The degree to which individuals feel genuine, authentic, and comfortable within their external appearance and accept their genuine identity has been called transgender congruence. Oliven of Columbia University coined the term transgender in his 1965 reference work Sexual Hygiene and Pathology, writing that the term which had previously been used, transsexualism, "is misleading; actually, 'transgenderism' is meant, because sexuality is not a major factor in primary transvestism." By 1992, the International Conference on Transgender Law and Employment Policy defined transgender as an expansive umbrella term including "transsexuals, transgenderists, cross dressers", and anyone transitioning.
I totally get what your saying to live in a world where discrimination is no longer would be heavenly... (bi,straight,gay) all words to keep you in a box !!! other women she dated before me seemed to have a problem with her still being married. i did have a problem with her wanting to see other women while we were dating, though. There are far more worse ppl out there who still manage to get dates and u being a lesbian with kids is not such a big deal. Maybe not on this site cuz well, alot of ppl on here are pretty judgmental. She soon thought that maybe being with another woman would somehow affect her child negatively later on down the road.
in the very short time that we dated, i never felt threatened by her husband. But because in her culture, family is everything, there was so much drama with us being together including the drama from her baby daddy.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... i must be strage.franki I know this message was posted awhile ago and you've had plenty of replys to it but I thought I'd reply to it anyway. If you cant change something, change the way you look at it :)Actually in Canada and in her situation the father is active in their lives .. It was always "you don't know because you dont have a kid" or "no matter what happens my child comes first" (which i expect from every mother.)Mind you, she was a grown ass woman.
IM not a lesbian by choice I DO not regret having a child even at this ageand when it comes to finding somone to be with for a partner they must accept you for who you areif there not gonna give you the time of day beacuse you have kids or you where married there MOST likely gonna the type to be drinkin all the time being with randoms and just having fun as the typical 2o somthings have and not really give a s(it about you anywayz if somone is serouis they would look past all that stuff and see it as a postitive not a negative.. As far as the ex being a active part in the kids lives, that is a wonderful thing. But she'll have to be someone special to accept 3 children, the ex in the picture etc. I'm a single mom in Canada, and I never had a hard time dating.........I have a 2 year boyfriend who I will be living with soon, BIO dad hasn't been in my life for 3 years, doesn't pay support, and not ALL of us women are money hungry gold diggers who want money. She realized, that she cant move her kid around because he is autistic, her family was close by and she didn't want to take her child away from his dad.
and for the record if i didnt have a child id still date a women who had children of her own * i guess its cause i love kids* BUT all im saying is your gonna need to find somone mature somone who is worth your as long as theres no feeling for your x i dont think it should matter It seems like you are finding out that no matter what the gender or the sexuality, people can be very judgmental etc... I'd NEVER want support from my boyfriend for a kid that aint even his! And my BF said that he'd probably want to stay in my kids life even if we broke up. USA/UK also have laws that reward single mothers and penalise fathers/or guys that date single mothers too. I myself didn't know how everything was going to play out.
transgender people may identify as heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, asexual, or may decline to label their sexual orientation.
The term transgender is also distinguished from intersex, a term that describes people born with physical sex characteristics "that do not fit typical binary notions of male or female bodies".