Dating brothers ex girlfriend
(Maybe this is a guy thing.) However, the most likely reason this new guy—the brother—is giving you mixed signals, is because he knows that it’s not a great idea to date his brother’s ex-wife, or rather, wife, since you’re not yet divorced. We tend not to date our friends’ ex-girlfriends, or ex-wives. Yes, it does happen, but only under special circumstances, and often after some time has passed.
There may be tension in their relationship now, but something like this could push that tension to the next level, and create a rift that’s unlikely to mend. We don’t see any sort of special circumstance applying here, and in addition, it’s WAY too soon.
That said, we do think he’s into you, although he’s very conflicted, as he should be.
That’s why his behavior is inconsistent and confusing.
He asked me to meet him at a local bar when he was out for his brother’s birthday.
However, as he explained, there was one final act that made the situation worse. "That is NOT how I wanted that break-up to go AT ALL." We feel for you, buddy.
in Ask the Guys, breaking up, Dating Advice, dating with kids, divorce, divorced and dating, Relationship Advice: Question/Answer, relationships, sex, single mom dating, single parent dating // 6 Comments Dear Guys, This guy and I text often, but I’ve only spoken to him on the phone once and seen him once.
He says he doesn’t really like talking on the phone when his kids are around and he has invited me over to his house on numerous occasions after his kids have gone to bed.
With us working opposite schedules and both having kids—we don’t want them involved—it has never worked out for us to get together.