Conflict in dating and marital relationships
Your spouse added a variety, spice, and difference to your life that it didn’t have before.
But after being married for a while (sometimes a short while), the attractions become repellents.
on March 30, 2018 in Why Bad Looks Good Relationships are more than skin deep. on March 30, 2018 in Emotional Fitness These actions can tear your relationship apart. The differences became apparent early in our marriage. Barbara had an Ethan Allen dream book and she was always looking at it. And so there we were, just married, with an antique table that needed refinishing. In some ways it saved our marriage in the early going.It was full of things made of solid cherry, solid walnut, solid mahogany. I didn’t understand why she wanted to go buy this kind of stuff when, in southwest Missouri, you could go to K-Mart and get a formica table with chrome legs and chairs! You can eat off that kind of table for years and it will never show any wear. We bought an antique and I was expected to refinish it—which created an opportunity for another major difference in our backgrounds to surface. He is mechanically gifted, can fix anything, and actually enjoys it. All of our differences are magnified in marriage because they feed what is undoubtedly the biggest source of our conflict—our selfish, sinful nature.Over the course of a relationship that can last as many as seven or eight decades, a lot happens. on April 04, 2018 in Lifetime Connections It’s amusing when we consider how much we say we loathe a narcissist while science provides evidence that we all think enough of ourselves that we like partners who look like us. Personalities change, bodies age, and romantic love waxes and wanes. What enables a couple to endure is how they handle that conflict.